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How Much Of An Impact Do Sitcom Characters Really Have On The Rest Of Us?

By
Relationship Advice Expert April Masini

Q: Dear April Masini,

I just wanted to find out what your thoughts on sitcom characters are? They seem to be so popular nowadays with everyone trying to copy their lifestyles! For instance my cousin recently advertised for a "Will" for her "Grace" persona -- a la Will and Grace! I think it's just silly but sitcoms seem to have a big impact on the rest of the population! Are they here to stay and change the way we think?

Sincerely,

Sitcom Schmitcom

A:

Dear Sitcom Schmitcom,

Sitcom characters have staying power because they articulate the way a segment of society feels — for the first time. For instance, Mary Tyler Moore’s character, Mary Richards, in the Mary Tyler Moore show articulated the way single women felt and wanted to feel. They had felt like second class citizens for so long because they were not married, that the Mary Richards character gave them a voice in society that they did not feel that they had before. There were no politicians or religious or other leaders that represented so many single women at one time. For that reason, Mary Richards is a sitcom character that will be around forever.

So, too are the characters in Friends. For the first time, the Gen X characters who struggled with relationships, jobs, and individuating themselves from their families, were represented in a way that the real Gen X liked and wanted to see more of. For this reason, Friends will be around for a long, long time.

Oddly — or maybe not — Southpark, the animated cartoon, will also have staying power. It’s characters are not smoothly drawn the way previously animated cartoon characters have been. Instead, like the characters themselves, they have a lot of raw edges. These characters are so gross and uninhibited, in ways that Roseanne and other “dark comedy” characters have never been, that they’ve crossed a line with sitcoms and made history. These characters said things that so many people think and say privately on blogs, but have never been articulated on television. For this reason, Southpark broke sitcom ground and will be remembered. What the Simpsons were trying to do, Southpark did with flying colors and there is no turning back. Even if the show is pretty disgusting.

April Masini -- nicknamed "the new millennium's Dear Abby" by the media, is author of the best-selling books Date Out Of Your League and Think & Date Like A Man, the two (just released) step-by-step dating and relationship manuals, Ideas for a Fun Date and Romantic Date Ideas, and the critically acclaimed dating and relationship online magazine www.AskApril.com.

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