Gifting Beethoven Babies

Remember Age When Buying Musical Gifts for Your LIttle Prodigy!

By
Relationship Advice Expert April Masini

Q: Dear April Masini,

My three-year-old daughter is very into music. She bangs on her little xylophone and lights up every time I put the radio on. My husband is psyched -- he's a musician. But I'm catching him sneaking glances at music stores and I am a bit concerned that he'll end up buying her a drum set or something. He tends to get carried away.

I obviously want to encourage my daughter to love music. Got any good suggestions for gifts for musical babies? Quick, before I end up transitioning from pots and pans to a full drum set!

Sincerely,

Mozart's Mom 

A:

Dear Mozart's Mom,

Many of my readers and clients come to me for advice on gifts to give kids — their own, their boyfriend’s their girlfriend’s, their stepkids, etc.

Sometimes adults don’t have kids and think a Fender Rhodes guitar is a great idea for a two-year-old who exhibits a special affinity for Jeremiah Was A Bullfrog. They would be wrong.

Here are gifts I suggest for my readers’ musical kids:

1. Simple instruments: xylophone, drum, recorder and tambourine or other percussion instruments like maracas and a triangle are all great beginning elements of music that kids can fool around with and beat time to music with.

2. Generally, children should be about six or seven before they receive a an instrument on which they are going to be given lessons. Don’t break the bank on a first musical instrument for your child. Your child is most likely too small for an adult sized instrument. Some instruments come in child-sizes that your child can learn on, and if he or she likes the lessons, you can then plan on getting a full sized instrument in a year or two or three.

3. If you’re going to give your child music lessons, consult with the teacher BEFORE you buy your instrument. They may be able to give you good advice on what to buy, what not to buy and where to buy it.

4. For families with more than one kids, start a band with your children! Give them each a compatible instrument and costumes so that they can play and perform!

April Masini -- nicknamed "the new millennium's Dear Abby" by the media, is author of the best-selling books Date Out Of Your League and Think & Date Like A Man, the two (just released) step-by-step dating and relationship manuals, Ideas for a Fun Date and Romantic Date Ideas, and the critically acclaimed dating and relationship online magazine www.AskApril.com.

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