Behavior: Is It OK for Mother and Daughter to Dress Alike?

By April Masini
January 4, 2007 (Posted at 2:03 pm)

It’s fine for mother and daughter to dress alike — up to a certain age and with a certain frequency.
The boundaries are:
* Not every day. Mothers and daughters should not dress alike every single day.
* After age 11 or 12 it’s not okay any more. Teenagers need to separate and form their own […]

Today: Entertaining, Cooking and Staying Home Are Now The Trend

By April Masini
January 4, 2007 (Posted at 1:48 pm)

Stores like Target, Kohl’s, etc., are popping up every day and are making it possible for people to get fabulous, designer items and well-thought-out designs for their homes and closets without spending an arm and a leg.
Indeed, home is big. It used to be fashionable to be out and about, but after herpes, AIDS […]

Fashion: How Does The Average Guy Pull Off A Hot New Look?

By April Masini
January 4, 2007 (Posted at 9:18 am)

Blazers are the hot item for guys right now.
Excerpted from Date Out Of Your League….
The Classic Blue Blazer
Once you have your navy suit hanging in your closet, next on
the list of what you need to own should be a classic blue blazer with plain, polished brass, black, or blue buttons. It comes from elite […]

Kids and Compressed Air–They’ll Huff and Puff, and Then What?

By Erika B. Webb
January 3, 2007 (Posted at 9:19 pm)

Parents, you may already be aware of the latest deadly household implement kids are using to get high. It’s the compressed air used for cleaning computer keyboards.
I got an e-mail forward a while back about the son of a narcotics agent who died with the nozzle in his mouth. He was 12. He’d been taught better. His […]

Today: Skin Bleaching in Africa

By April Masini
January 3, 2007 (Posted at 10:29 am)

The popularity of skin bleaching in Africa, especially in West African countries, is on the rise…why? Why, in a continent of dark skin, could a lighter skin color be considered more attractive?
OMG — are you kidding me?
Dark skinned people lightning their skin as news? Wake up! Appearance is under the spotlight now, more […]

Parenting: Preteen Hygiene

By April Masini
January 3, 2007 (Posted at 10:18 am)

The best and healthiest way to motivate preteens to practice good hygiene is with positive reinforcement. Giving them negative reinforcement — telling them they look ugly, dirty, greasy, etc., will damage their self-esteem.
* Explain to your child that they will FEEL a lot better if they take a shower nightly. If you focus […]

Today: The Return of Martha Stewart

By April Masini
January 3, 2007 (Posted at 10:16 am)

Martha Stewart is a survivor. She understands that ups and downs in life means UPS AND DOWNS. She’s had a lot of really amazing times and successes. She’s also had a lot of really terrible times and failures. But she is not defined by one or another. She is defined by the sum total of […]

Relationships: Why We Have Friends

By April Masini
January 3, 2007 (Posted at 9:11 am)

No man is an island. People have the need to share their experiences. Even cavemen wrote of their experiences on the walls of their caves so that others could read them. Storytelling is an ancient art because of this need to share experience. Friendships are the quintessential relationship to satisfy this human need to hear […]

Looking for Happiness in 2007?

By Erika B. Webb
January 2, 2007 (Posted at 6:57 pm)

This is the time of year when people tend to be more conscious of their goals–those they want to achieve or those they’ve failed to achieve. Depending on where you are in your thinking, you’ll either hit the ground running, super-charged and driven or you might be melancholy, down on yourself, and feeling unmotivated as a result.
That’s […]

The Psychology of Home-Court Advantage

By April Masini
January 2, 2007 (Posted at 5:43 pm)

Can a negative atmosphere actually make a player (or a team) worse?
There are two challenges of the game. The first is athletic ability, and once you teach form and game rules, there’s not a whole lot you can do to make a person more or less athletic or able. They’re shooters or they’re not […]