Health: Stress Is To The 2000s, What Herpes Was To The 80s.

Stress…. It’s making magazine covers and getting lots of medical attention. It’s a very real issue and it’s effects are known, but it’s causes have to do with individuals. Not everyone reacts to stress the same way. Some people are sensitive, some very sensitive, and some hyper-sensitive, while others are not sensitive. The effects of stress vary from individual to individual.

Short term solutions are so myriad that there is now a stress industry. Not surprisingly there is also a booming wedding industry, a booming divorce industry and a booming dating industry. See any connections? I do!

Short of alleviating the root causes of these stresses — incompatibility, intolerance, lack of flexibility and open-mindness, there is something for everyone! From short term talk therapy to drug therapy to aroma-therapy to massage (touch therapy) to comfort food to different herbal teas to yoga — the list goes on and on and on!

Basically, these short term therapies help open up channels to release stress. They don’t stop stress, but what they do is unblock channels by which stress is released. Aromatherapy stimulates senses that may distract you from patterns of tension (clenching, grinding, obsessing). Massage breaks up muscle knots and areas of the body where people hold tension, again, by clenching, grinding and flexing.

1. Get a massage. Now, more than ever, you need to take care of your body to take care of all the holiday tasks and family and friends. A massage is an hour out of a day that will pay off exponentially. Consider it an early present to yourself.

2. Get a manicure/pedicure. It’s not as dumb as it sounds. Sitting in the chair, alone, for the time it takes for your fingers and toes to be done, is a forced rest period. The polish is a bonus.

3. Take yourself out to lunch for one. And not at a drive through! Sit yourself down at a nice restaurant and order yourself a salad or an entree that someone else is going to take the time to prepare for you. Have a glass of wine and an espresso before and after. Like the manicure/pedicure, sitting at a restaurant waiting for your order, eating your lunch, and sipping your coffee after is a forced rest. Your body will rejuvenate from the rest. Your body will be nourished by the healthy (not grabbed on the go) food, and your spirit will thank you for taking care of you so you can take care of others.

4. Make time for sex. Trust me — in all the hustle bustle, you’ll forget. You’ll be too tired. You’ll have shopping, baking and wrapping to do that will take precedence if you don’t make time for sex — a stress buster, rejuvenator and relationship builder.

5. Buy yourself a new fragrance. Aromatherapy is no joke. Inhaling a pleasing fragrance that is new, will give you a pleasant jump start. Relieve your stress, treat your senses — and everyone else’s around you!