Relationship Advice - Do Opposites Attract?
By April MasiniMay 13, 2008 (Posted at 2:00 pm)
It seems these days that politics have made there way into every bedroom in the country… And, while I believe it’s a myth that “opposites attract” — there are even some good arguments to be made backing up the case, like James Carville and Mary Matlin or Maria Shriver and Arnold Schwarzenegger. That said, typically, an “oil and water” combo proves to be more than most can handle.
Generally speaking, while it can be exciting and interesting (at first) to add spice to our lives by dating someone who’s perceptions and opinions are completely different from our own … just wait until that initial intrigue and challenge wears off! What you will be left with is a person who thinks, feels, behaves, and acts, in ways we don’t understand, agree with, or consider to be normal. All of a sudden that exciting spice - has turned to conflict, disagreements, or dishonesty in an effort to avoid an argument.
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