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Along with sex, money is one of the most divisive issues in a relationship—contributing greatly to our ever-growing divorce rate. Interestingly, though, the issue of money does not seem any less problematic for who have it as it is for those who don’t. Whether rich or poor, the subject of finances can hang over a relationship like a perpetual dark cloud. The key, as with virtually all aspects of a relationship—is communication.

I suggest that, just like couples who seek pre-marital counseling, a man and woman about to wed also schedule time with their financial adviser. Once there, plan to get it all out on the table.

Will you share a checking account?

Who will handle the bills?

What happens when kids are in the picture?

What kind of savings plan will you have?

Should you each have your own savings account?

The truth is that no matter which side of the proverbial train tracks each of you comes from, neither of you is impervious to the complicated feelings and issues money brings up.