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How Marriage Affects Your Weight

Unfortunately, many women ‘get comfortable’ once they ‘get the man’—letting themselves go only to subsequently assume the position that ‘a man should love them for them’—not what they look like.  But herein lies the trouble with that one-sided attitude. Yes, the man may indeed ‘love you for you’, but he also loves his dog and his mother—he doesn’t want to make love to them, and now, he probably doesn’t want to make love to you either.

Men are visual creatures—it’s difficult for them to get an erection, if they aren’t attracted.  No erection equals no sex.  If a man ceases to have sex, in most cases he ceases to feel like a man. It really isn’t all that complicated.

It is a woman’s responsibility to maintain (to the best of her ability) what her husband bought when they got married, as it is unfair to unilaterally switch products on him after he’s made a lifetime purchase.

Let’s face facts, a fish is not going to jump out of the water and start walking on land any more than a man is going to wake up one day and say, “I want to start having sex with an unattractive woman.”  But, if you beat him over the head and insist he’s bad for stating the truth, he’ll simply stop telling you the truth.

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