Achieving Intimacy
How to increase the level of intimacy in your relationship? Change your expectations—it’s the only way. Men, if you don’t know it by now, connect and communicate differently than women. What may come naturally to us (talking about our feelings, etc.) can be a struggle for them… just ask them how they feel about […]

Make A Great First Impression
Whether you’re a man or woman, your first date presents an opportunity that will never come again—the chance to make a good first impression.  Ladies—wear a dress that hugs your curves in all the right places, but still leaves a little to the imagination (bare the legs or the breasts, not […]

Spotting Your Soulmate
Question: Do we have the same views on money and sex?
Money and sex. They’re the two most divisive issues in a relationship, and are sighted as the most common reasons for divorce. So when you’re making your list (and hopefully checking it twice) for the things you’re looking for in a partner, make […]

Dating Your Political Opposite
Just like few topics are more divisive than politics, so too are there few that allow people to immediately feel connected to virtual strangers like politics does. In part because a choice in politics says much more about you than whether you believe in increased taxes for the wealthy. It speaks […]

I hear so many women say that they don’t want to “play games” with men, but the truth is that being totally honest and totally up-front is totally unwise. Things that would move us to tears—like hearing them profess their feelings for us—will move them to running right out the door, if we’re the initiators. […]

Do Dating Books Work?
Okay, so maybe I’m biased, having written Date Our of Your League, my own popular dating advice book for men, but the unbelievable response I’ve gotten from my readers—thanking me for laying it all out on the table—assures me that I’m on to something.
What is it that I’ve discovered? When it comes […]

Workplace Romance - Turning An Office Fling Into A Long Term Romance
Even though it’s often advised against, dating people you work with just makes practical sense—after all, we spend so much of our lives in the office, there’s often no other way or time to meet anyone else. But that’s not to say you don’t […]

Giving Him Fashion Advice
Look ladies, we know, and our men know, that eventually we will have changed their look to accommodate our own desires. It’s practically a law. But there is such a thing as doing too much too soon, especially if you’ve got the kind of guy who clings to his independence for dear-life. […]

How Love Affects Health
As is often the case, men really reap the rewards when it comes to the effect of their love life on health. Studies show that men live significantly longer if they’re married, and actually have a whole host of other improved conditions—including better functioning immune systems. What to attribute this to? Nagging! […]

So your profile brings them in by the boatload, and you’ve even perfected the art of flirting online. The question now is: Do you remember how to have a “normal”, in-person, interaction?

Don’t scoff. Interpersonal skills, just like knowing a foreign language, have to be kept in working order. It’s much easier, after all, to be […]