I wonder if any of these women write to these men on death row out of sheer curiosity? Have you ever seen those interviews with people like the Iceman? Psychologists interview them and ask them questions, trying to get to the bottom of why these murderers do what they do.
Oh! Well sometimes they do. They come up with their theories of what is psychologically wrong with the murderers, but there is never really a clear-cut answer as to WHY they do it.