it never fails to amaze me how guys always want to complicate pleasing us. really if they pay attention to our reactions, they would have no trouble. i love it when guys just touch me lightly, caress me, make me feel beautiful and sexy without just telling me. sometimes they get so excited about the prospect of sex that they forget to pay attention to how i'm reacting to what they're doing..whether it be positive or negative? has anyone else ever had this experience?