I have had to deal with a fat, narciscistic ex from the beginning. She has sent messages through the kids, called, showed up at my husbands job late at night, shoved her fat ass in our face as we were sitting down to watch our grandaughters kindergarten graduation,be embarressed by her gaggle yells,she always uses my husband to start her conversations, to upgrade her low place she keeps bringing up who she was married to. (25 years ago!!) Uses the grown kids to keep up with my life. The list goes on and on. Why cant she leave us alone!! She is a schoolbus driver who drinks on Sunday and drives kids on Monday! She is 44 years old and tries to dress like a teenager. She looks like a sausage stuffed into tight low rider jeans. (her cellulite shows through, the pants are so tight. She talks like a backwoods redneck who never learned proper speaking. She embarresses us by coming up to my husband when I walk away, then runs (ambles) when I come up. She wont look me in the eye. This woman ( use the word lightly) is a legend in her own mind. She thinks she is pretty. (maybe 20 years ago, but has long lost her battle with weight and brains. I gusess you can tell I dont have any respect for her. (I tried, till I got sick of her vindictive ways) Please help with this problem!!

Our problem is this. I am a single mom and my baby's daddy is still in the picture. My daughter is seven years old and my family and I are still okay with her dad. When we took my father out to lunch (her grandfather), we invited my daughter's father as well so she could be with him on father's day. The problem is, his new girlfriend would not allow him to come, because she said that we are not his family anymore. Is she being unreasonable, or are we being unreasonable to expect him to hang out with his x-father-in-law, x-wife, x-sister and brother-in-laws, etc.