Extreme Vacation Dating
Advice on Taking Vacation Dating To The Extreme
Relationship Advice Expert April Masini
Advice Seeker: Dear April Masini,
My friend's husband really loves extreme sports. She's kind of into them too and they're talking about going on an extreme dating adventure and want us to watch their kids while they're away. My husband and I think they are being ridiculous for going on an extreme dating vacation and that they need to grow up and start going on family-based vacations with our kids. They are in desperate need of romance advice that doesn't involve jumping off cliffs. What do you think about extreme dating?
Sincerely,
If It's Not Extreme, Why Do It?
April Masini's advice:
Dear If It's Not Extreme, Why Do It?,
Extreme sports are where people get out of the ordinary thrills, when the everyday and special occasion thrills no longer suffice. Extreme vacation dating -- or any kind of extreme dating reflects what's going on in America. Daters are putting their need for speed, height, danger, and other extremes ahead of partnering.
Extreme vacation dating is so seductive because it feeds the need for adrenaline, and while adrenaline junkies can be fun in small doses, they are lethal in couples -- especially couples who choose to have children. Children and families need constancy and stability to maintain. Extreme vacation dating is the exact opposite of the building blocks for stable relationships.
What extreme vacations are great for is a bunch of guys getting together once or twice a year to feed their testosterone need. But men and women together, dating in the extreme, is a recipe for disaster.
If you're looking for some great date ideas for couples that may be a little more low-key, check out my dating book for couples, Romantic Date Ideas.
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April Masini -- nicknamed "the new millennium's Dear Abby" by the media, is author of the best-selling books Date Out Of Your League and Think & Date Like A Man, the two (just released) step-by-step dating and relationship manuals, Ideas for a Fun Date and Romantic Date Ideas, and the critically acclaimed dating and relationship online magazine www.AskApril.com.
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