Gift Giving Tips - Sexy Gifts He'll Love  

Tips for Giving Your Boyfriend Fabulous and Sexy Gifts that Won't Break Your Bank

Gift Giving Tips - Sexy Gifts He'll Love

Relationship Advice Expert April Masini

Advice Seeker: Dear April Masini,

Help!  I never know what gift to give my boyfriend, and I have to get three presents for him back-to-back. His birthday is in November, then there's Christmas, and then Valentine's day. I want to give him something special, but I'm at a loss. And did I mention that I'm financially challenged, too? Please give me some advice on how I can get my boyfriend fabulous, but not crazy-expensive, gifts!

Sincerely,

Financially Challenged Gift Giver


April Masini's advice:

Dear Financially Challenged Gift Giver,

Gift giving can be nerve wrecking and it can be expensive, but it doesn't have to be either of these things... if you are willing to be a little creative.

For instance, Valentine's Day is a great time to show how much you care -- and just how you care. This is the only holiday when sex comes out of the back seat and is featured front and center. So show your sweetie how sexy he is by showing how sexy you can be!

April’s Top 10 Sexiest Gifts to Give Him (for any occasion) That He'll Love:

1. You, obviously. Wrapped up in red velvet lingerie.

2. Boudoir photos of yourself. Go to a professional and do it up right. Or if you're low on cash, have a girlfriend take the photos for you. With digital cameras (they're under $50 at Radio Shack and under $20 for disposable ones at drug stores) you can - develop them on your computer for free and print them out on your own printer.

3. If you've been dating long enough, send a thank you note to his mother and father.

4. Wash his car and detail it. Or if you’re feeling flush, have a professional do it.

5. Make him an incredible dinner at home with you for dessert

6. Give him a massage but go all out with candlelight, a clean, fluffy robe just out of the dryer so it's nice and warm, massage oils and soothing music. Have a plate of fruit slices and some sake nearby to replenish his juices. (Wink, wink) If it's in your budget, hire a masseuse to come to your home and give you both massages for a double treat.

7. Surprise him with a striptease. Make it authentic with music and costume some trashy lingerie (Fredrick’s or Victoria’s will do too).

8. Make him a book of X-rated personalized coupons that include either:

Nights In:
  • 6 BJs
  • a 30 minute back massage and a 30 minute foot massage
  • a full body massage with bonus benefits
  • a night of role playing featuring master and servant, school teacher and student, or boss and secretary.
No Tell Motel:
  • a night in a luxury hotel with a big Jacuzzi and a fireplace, complete with strawberries and champagne
  • a lunch hour during the week in a luxury hotel with a quick room
  • service lunch before he goes back to the office
Field Trip:
  • a trip to the local adult toy store
  • a trip to the porn section of the video store, and his choice of rentals -- you bring the pop corn
  • a shopping trip to Trashy Lingerie, Frederick’s of Hollywood, or Victoria’s Secret. He picks the purchases. You try them all on first.

Lost Weekend:

Tell him to pack an overnight bag and - kidnap him on a trip to...

  • a casino hotel in Vegas or Atlantic City
  • an overnight Amtrak trip with a sleeper car
  • a river rafting trip where you sleep in tents river-side
Class Acts:
  • a series of dance classes
  • a series of sports classes (any sport he has been wanting to try)
  • a series of sex-ed classes for fun!

9. Game night. Strip poker, naked Twister or Scrabble where during each round, whoever scores the lower number of points, removes one item of clothing. You both score either way!

10. Pot luck dinner party! Invite six friends to bring a dish that is red! Some ideas are red wine, cosmos, tomato-y red topped bruschetta, rare roast beef or carpaccio, stuffed red peppers, etc. And of course, the dress code? Code red.

These ideas, along with many more romantic date ideas can be found in my book, Romantic Date Ideas. Buy it today and have a very happy, sexual, and sensual special day -- any day!

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April Masini -- nicknamed "the new millennium's Dear Abby" by the media, is author of the best-selling books Date Out Of Your League and Think & Date Like A Man, the two (just released) step-by-step dating and relationship manuals, Ideas for a Fun Date and Romantic Date Ideas, and the critically acclaimed dating and relationship online magazine www.AskApril.com.