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Have Kids Lost Their Feelings of Patriotism?

Oh, Say, Can't They See

Relationship Advice Expert April Masini

Advice Seeker: Dear April Masini,

I have some younger grandchildren--elementary school age--and was horrified recently that they don't know the entire Pledge of Allegiance or the words to the Star Spangled Banner. As a Vietnam veteran, I am proud of the Country I fought to keep safe. When I talked to my daughter about it, she said that things have changed and that the same emphasis on patriotism is not put on for kids anymore.

What do you think? Do I need to take it upon myself to be sure my grandkids are educated about their Country?

Sincerely,

Proud American 


April Masini's advice:

Dear Proud American,

There has been a shift in kids' feelings towards their Country. 

Reasons why patriotic feelings among youth have changed:

Younger generations have been sensitized to death, violence and war. When television brought war into American living rooms some 30 to 40 years ago, there was a horrified reaction. But for 40 years, now, Americans have been seeing war on the news, and violence in their entertainment, and Memorial Day doesn't capture a real feeling for many people who have never served or have known someone who served. 
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April Masini -- nicknamed "the new millennium's Dear Abby" by the media, is author of the best-selling books Date Out Of Your League and Think & Date Like A Man, the two (just released) step-by-step dating and relationship manuals, Ideas for a Fun Date and Romantic Date Ideas, and the critically acclaimed dating and relationship online magazine www.AskApril.com.