Reverse Sex Tourism  

Advice on Why Reverse Sex Tourism Probably Isn't Right for You

Reverse Sex Tourism

Advice Seeker: Dear April,

I've been hearing a lot about reverse sex tourism lately and have no idea what is is all about. I'm single and looking for some fun. Do you have any advice on if reverse sex tourism could be right for me?

Sincerely,

I Don't Think the Auto Club Covers This Trip


April Masini's advice:

Dear I Don't Think the Auto Club Covers This Trip:

Reverse sex tourism is when a woman goes to a foreign country looking for sex from young male prostitutes. It’s a reversal of what’s been happening in places like Thailand for years, where men (who are largely Americans) vacation to seek out young girls and women for sex.  

Shocked? I’m not.

Today, we are seeing more and more women exhibiting what used to be traditionally male behavior, with one key difference — the women get away with it. 

Female Sexual Predators – Still a Politically Incorrect Topic:

Women rapists – they’re increasing in number – occupying more headlines and court rooms around the nation, and challenging the stereotypes of women as perpetrators, but with few repercussions. Goodbye female victims. Hello female assailants. 

For whatever reason, most judges believe that a crime perpetrated by a woman on a male child is not the same as a crime perpetrated by a male on a female child. Incredibly, when it comes to misconduct and assault (sexual and otherwise), date rape and child rape — we’re living in a world where women typically receive a slap on the wrist and men receive a prison sentence. Consider the number of female teachers over the past three years who have been arrested for having sex with minor male students – and then are given probation or minimal sentences. 

A 2004 U.S. Department of Education report titled “Educator Sexual Misconduct: A Synthesis of Existing Literature” cites two large sample surveys in which students report that 43% of their molesters were female sexual predators. This unchecked and unchallenged bias will not only prove to negatively impact boys and men today and for generations to come, but it will negatively impacting all of society. 

Girls Gone Wild -- To a Dangerous Extreme:

Women are rampantly misbehaving in ways unimagined just a few years ago — with impunity, indulgence, great latitude, and no repercussions – and with the government, the media, and the legal system all encouraging, condoning and (in many instances), rewarding them.

Instead of participating in something like reverse sex tourism, pick up a copy of my book Think & Date Like A Man, and learn how to score a real date with a man looking for a relationship. Then you can go out on a hot date with some of the ideas you can find in Ideas for a Fun Date.
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