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The Vacation Time Dilemma

Work to Live or Live to Work

Relationship Advice Expert April Masini

Advice Seeker: Dear April Masini,

I haven't taken a vacation since I graduated college and started working two years ago. My longest breaks have been a couple of long weekends. I'm thinking about taking a week off and going away with my girlfriend, but the idea of leaving the office for that long stresses me out, and I'm worried that I would miss a big development in one of my projects while I'm gone, or get passed over for a promotion or something. Have I completely lost it?

Sincerely,

Gimme A Break 


April Masini's advice:

Dear Gimme A Break,

Europeans have always understood the importance of vacations as part of life and the balance between work and vacation. Americans have always been primarily ambitious and have put work ahead of the rest of life. Many Japanese industries have integrated personal life into work. And Europeans, for the most part put work behind the rest of life. 

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April Masini -- nicknamed "the new millennium's Dear Abby" by the media, is author of the best-selling books Date Out Of Your League and Think & Date Like A Man, the two (just released) step-by-step dating and relationship manuals, Ideas for a Fun Date and Romantic Date Ideas, and the critically acclaimed dating and relationship online magazine www.AskApril.com.

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