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Threesomes Why Its Better To Have Them Now Not Later

Threesomes Why Its Better To Have Them Now Not Later

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Threesomes - Why It's Better to Have Them Now, Not Later


The idea of a threesome sounds pretty exciting to most guys. And if it's been a long held fantasy that's never become a reality, maybe now is the time to treat yourself by indulging in one! After all, you only live once!


But the problem is, in a committed relationship, suggesting involving a third party in your sex life can cause issues, if your partner isn't in to the idea or as open minded as you are. While today there are more and more people exploring open relationships, sometimes it's just a Pandora's box that should never be opened with a life partner. Threesomes can often to lead one, but not both partners wanting more, or if any boundaries are crossed in the heat of the moment, those can turn in to long-held resentments that eat away in a committed relationship. Trust can be violated in many different ways (even accidentally) and lost forever. If you are either still casually dating, or perhaps you're recently divorced, then why on earth wouldn't you fulfill that threesome fantasy while you can?


If your partner is willing, or you don't have a partner, you'll need to find someone (or two) to make up the numbers, Of course, you could ask an open-minded friend, but you risk blurring lines and boundaries and, if things don't go as planned, you could risk that friendship entirely. Or you may find a willing participant at a fetish party, but maybe thats not your thing - they can be intimidating and some exclude single men completely.


There is one very simple solution to the problem - hiring an escort (or two). That way you can be absolutely certain that nobody is going to get hurt, and you'll be in the company of escorts who can make your first threesome the best experience possible. Many escorts have already experienced threesomes, so they can help you to ask for what you want and you can live out your fantasies in exactly the way you imagined, without having to worry if your partner is enjoying it as much as you are. Not only that, but if you try it and love it, you can hire the same escort again, or try someone new next time.


Maybe your partner has already agreed to having a threesome with you? Hiring an escort from topescortbabes can be part of the build up and anticipation of the fun that's ahead. Together you can browse and view different profiles and mutually agree on who you choose for your evening of pleasure. You may learn a thing or two about your partner in the process! Then, together you can decide on any boundaries (be very clear on these to avoid any problems) and what each will and will not do, and also discuss what happens later - do they stay the night, or leave right away? Threesomes in an open relationship require a clear plan and communication, but, if everyone enjoys themselves, then there's nothing to stop you adding this exciting new dimension to your relationship on a more regular basis.